After awhile you learn the difference,
The subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love does not mean leaning,
And company does not always mean security.
And you learn that kisses are not contracts
And presents are not promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of an adult and not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans, and the future has a habit of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that the sun burns if exposed for long... And learn that no matter how much you care, some people just do not car...
And accept that no matter how good a person, She will hurt you once in a while and you need to forgive her for that.
You learn that talking can ease emotional pains.
Discover that it takes years to build trust and only seconds to destroy it, and what you can do things in an instant of which you will regret for life.
Learns that true friendship continues to grow even over long distances.
And what matters is not what you have in life, but who you are in life.
And what good friends are the family that allowed us to choose. You learn that we do not have to change friends If we understand that friends change, realizes that his best friend and you can do anything, or nothing and have good times together.
Discovers that the people you most care about in life are taken from you so quickly, So we must always leave loved ones with loving words, may be the last time we see them.
Learns that circumstances and the environment have influence upon us, But we are responsible for ourselves.
Begin to learn that you should not compare with others, but with the best you can be.
Discover that it takes a long time to become the person you want to be, and that time is short.
You learn that no matter where you have arrived, but where you're going but if you do not know where you're going, Anywhere will do.
Learn that either you control your actions or they will control, be flexible and that does not mean being weak or have no personality, because no matter how delicate and fragile the situation is, There are always two sides.
You learn that heroes are people who have done what was needed, facing the consequences.
You learn that patience requires a lot of practice.
You discover that sometimes the person you expect to kick when you fall into one of the few that help you get up.
You learn that maturity has more to do with the kinds of experience you had and what you learned from them than with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
Learn that there are more of your parents on you than you thought.
You learn that you should never tell a child that dreams are silly, few things are so humiliating, and would be a tragedy if they believed it.
You learn that when you're angry you have the right to be angry, but that does not give you the right to be cruel.
You realize that just because someone does not love you the way you want that love does not mean that someone does not love him, Because there are people who love us, but just do not know how to show it.
Learns that it is not always enough to be forgiven by someone, sometimes you have to learn to forgive himself.
Learn that with the same harshness you judge, at some point you will be condemned.
You learn that no matter how many pieces your heart was broken, the world does not stop for you to fix it.
You learn that time is not something that can turn back.
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure ... You really are strong, and can go much away after thinking it can not be more.
And that life has value and that you have value in life!
Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we could take, if it was not afraid to try.